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Starbucks…No Thanks A Latte

Posted by Mom at 4:30pm in Saving Money

No Thanks A Latte
Two weeks ago, I decided to break up with Starbucks.

Our relationship started back in 1999 when I landed a consulting gig in Chicago. In the lobby of the Sears Tower, there was a Starbucks tucked away in the corner.

I’ve been a coffee lover since I was little and enjoyed a home-brewed cup or two with breakfast. The lure of trying something new enticed me into that Starbucks shop the second day on the job.

I remember feeling slightly overwhelmed by the offerings on the menu board, so I decided to play it safe and ordered a plain latte. It was decent.

The next day, I tried a fu-fu drink. It was a caramel macchiato. From the moment I saw the barrista lavishly drizzle caramel onto the latte’s foam, I was hooked.

Macchiatos, Mochas, Lattes, Oh My!

It did not help that a co-worker was obsessed with Starbucks too. Before long, we made it our daily ritual to take a break, go down to the lobby, and get an afternoon pick-me-up.

My love affair continued long after my consulting contract ended. A new store opened within blocks of our home, and it had a drive-thru to make it more convenient! Dad was hooked too.

I’ve had coffee aficionados tell me that Starbucks coffee isn’t really that good. Some say the espresso is bitter, others have said it has a burnt taste. For me, none of that mattered. You see, it wasn’t the coffee or the caffeine I was addicted to.

I was in love with my daily ritual.

When you work full-time and have kids, six in our case, Mom and Dad don’t have a lot of alone time. After work, our older daughter would watch the littles for us. We would take a quick trip to Starbucks for coffee and a few minutes of catching up. I so enjoyed this time with Dad.

Insanity.

My addiction came at a price. First, it was $4 a day. Then the prices went up and my favorite drink cost $4.20. Now I think it’s to $4.35. Sometimes I would go in the morning, and then again with Dad in the evening. I’m embarrassed to admit that this addiction was costing upwards of $70 a week.

All for the “good feelings” that come from enjoying a cup of coffee with my husband. The funny thing is, the service at Starbucks hasn’t been stellar lately, and sometimes the coffee tastes so-so. Not worth the money.

stardollars

So, we quit cold turkey (well…we are trying).

We started a new ritual. Dad and I sit on the patio together in the morning and enjoy our home brew. When I feel like having coffee in the afternoon, I whip out the Bodum coffee pressamazon and in minutes I’m indulging in a great cup of coffee for a fraction of the cost.

Breaking up is hard to do.

I did find out that Dad “cheated” last week when he was waiting for an oil change. There was a Starbucks within walking distance so he indulged. I also caved when I was out shopping with my daughter. I tried to keep the cost down by ordering tall hot chocolates.

Two visits in two weeks is a great start, considering we were going almost daily before. The goal is ZERO visits this week.

I am keeping track of how much we’re saving by not going, and I plan on sharing that here at end of the month.

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Establishing Work At Home Boundaries

Posted by Mom at 5:14pm in Work At Home

lineinsand One common work at home challenge, is dealing with friends and family members calling on the phone to chat.

People assume because you are home, you are easily accessible and hey…it’s a casual workplace, right?

I faced this same problem when I first starting working at home.

One quick “personal” call would turn into an hour long gab-fest and then my work would fall behind.

While my schedule is more flexible now that I work at home, I still have a full workload and need to stay focused in order to get things done.

Here are some practical suggestions I’ve learned to establish boundaries:

Establish a schedule and advertise it. I generally work from 7:30am - 4:30pm and I let everyone outside the home know I am unavailable during these times.

Keep a separate phone for work and home. I have a phone number for work that I have not shared with personal contacts. I do not answer my home phone during my normal working hours, my voice mail does all the work for me! I return calls after work.

It’s not only the phone that distracts and wastes time!

Separate your e-mail accounts. I have one e-mail account for work and for personal use. I only check and respond to personal e-mails once a day, usually at lunch or after dinnertime.

Separate IM accounts too. Honestly, instant messaging can be a huge time waster. I found that personal IM’s would interrupt my thoughts and workflow, so I keep my personal account logged off during my working hours.

By setting and enforcing YOUR rules, friends and family will take your work seriously.

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